Groups at Identity House provide participants with a unique opportunity to share experiences and support others in the LGBTQ community in a safe and confidential environment. We offer theme-centered groups on coming out, relationships, gender identity and frequently add new group topics as interest emerges.

Groups typically meet on a weeknight for 8 weeks, although we periodically offer 6 and 12 week groups as well. All groups are facilitated by two Identity House members. Before the first meeting there is an orientation session which gives participants an opportunity to learn more about the group. We do not charge a fee but our suggested contribution to Identity House for each session is $25. However, no one is ever turned away for financial reasons. Meetings typically take place at various Manhattan locations in the Midtown, Union Square, Chelsea and Greenwich Village neighborhoods.

Listed below are the groups that are about to start or have already started. If the group you are interested in has already started, you may still be able to join if the group has just begun. Even if you are unable to join, either because the group is well underway or because it is filled to capacity (we usually cap groups at 12 people), you are still encouraged to contact us so that we can let you know the next time that group will be starting.

We welcome suggestions for new group topics so please contact  This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it  with any feedback.


Current Groups


Men's Coming Out Group

Men's Coming Out Group forming to meet on Friday nights, 7:15 - 9:15, startingMay 15 through June 26, for 6 sessions (we'll be meeting on Memorial Day Weekend and skipping June 12). The group will be meeting near Union Square. Interactive, supportive with men of all ages and in all stages of coming out. Orientation will be held shortly so you can meet other participants and hear more about the group. Email Co-Facilitator Jim at  This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it  if you'd like to attend the orientation.


Upcoming Groups


Lesbian Coming Out Group

Forming now for 2015. 

This interactive, supportive women's coming out group will be meeting for 8 sessions (the exact date is TBA). Coming out is extremely personal, and each person’s journey is unique. The group is intended to be a safe space for members to share their experiences, challenges, fears and aspirations with other women of all ages who may be at varying stages in their coming out journey.  This group will explore what coming out means to you and how to navigate the coming out process at your own pace. The group may discuss family, homophobia, social norms, relationships and dating, sexual fluidity, isolation, coming out at work, labeling, and/or any other relevant topics of interest to the group.


The group will run for the duration of 8 weeks, the exact date will be announced soon.

Location and the exact time will be provided.

Note: A $25 suggested donation is requested per session > Please bring $200 check (or cash) to orientation made out to Identity House for the full 8 weeks.  (See facilitator if you are unable to pay full amount -- no one will be turned away.)

Please contact I-House Groups at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it if you are interested in attending or if you have any questions about this group.


Bisexual Support Group - Start Date 02/04/2015

With the New Year, Identity House is forming a new group specific to the bisexual community. This is a new group focused on learning from one another and providing peer feedback on relevant topics that matter to you. We invite individuals of all genders to share their experiences and talk about bisexual life. With your participation, we can help build a foundational block on which the bisexual community can stand!

The emphasis of the group is peer support and the journey of finding yourself, loving yourself, navigating the process of discovering your sexual orientation and the understanding of what bisexuality means to each individual. This group will address the complexities and range of topics unique to the bisexual community and understanding of the importance of providing a space to explore the needs of the bisexual community.  Discussion topics may include bi phobia, bi erasure, bi privilege, sexual and gender fluidity, sexual health, access to quality mental health and health services, coming out, isolation, dating, relationships, work, gender identity, behavior, attraction, love, social constructs, inclusion and/or dis-inclusion in the LGBTQ community. The group will also help connect members to supports and share relevant and helpful books and resources.


Details: The group is an 8 week commitment and will run in February 2015 on Wednesday nights from 6:30-8:30pm. There will be an orientation session on February 4, 2015 to give all participants an opportunity to learn more about the group. There's a suggested contribution to Identity House of $25 per session, however no one is turned away for financial reasons. 


To participate in this group, find out location details or if you have any questions contact us at  This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it



Other Groups

These groups are not currently scheduled. 


Gender Exploration Group


Do you identify as transgender, gender-non-conforming or are you still exploring your relationship to your gender identity? Wherever you are along the trans* or gender continuum, we invite you to participate in a group that will navigate the concepts of gender identity and expression as it relates to positive self-esteem, relationships and other critical topics that our members bring in from week-to-week. Support, community, learning, sharing - join us in a safer and open environment.

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